Are Trans People Avoiding Growing Up? Detrans Counselor Reveals Truth

Conversation with Detrans Counselor Vincent De Boni and Laura Becker

Detransitioner Laura Becker and detrans counselor Vincent De Boni dive deep into why gender transition can be an escape from adult responsibility.

We discuss developmental delays, the struggle to accept innate masculine and feminine traits, and the psychological and evolutionary reasons behind identity crises, including fear of parenthood in Gen Z. Learn how trans identity can become a form of self-induced disability, avoiding reproductive capacity and parenthood.

Timestamps:

00:00 Laura's detransitioner case study of responsibility avoidance and childhood VULNERABILITIES to transition

25:00 Vincent's analysis as a counselor about MOTIVATION and disruption of evolutionary drives leading to transition fantasy

41:00 Laura believed she was DISABLED and transition was inevitable

43:00 Do NOT underestimate your child's capacity for growth

52:00 Trans people are MIMICKING competency, a form of narcissism

54:00 Fantasy keeps you STUCK in dysfunction instead of moving towards higher goals

57:00 Pretending to be the opposite sex leads to relational and sexual ABUSE

1:03:00 Healthy relationships lead to stable identity, lack creates a transition VOID

1:12:00 Queerness is revenge of the UGLIES, a failed mating strategy

1:13:18 Living in survival mode vs living in SOCIETY

1:24:00 Vincent's detrans support group and HEALING through relationship